In the competitive world of high school football, one might think the highest achievement is the number of touchdowns or tackles one makes, but some honors celebrate a different kind of strength—good sportsmanship, leadership, and a strong sense of community. For Tenafly High School senior Nate Libien, the game has always been more than just the score. It’s been about the spirit of the game, the bonds forged between teammates, and the lasting impact off the field. This mindset has recently earned him an honor that only two players in New Jersey could achieve.
On October 23, at Geissinger Field, Libien was recognized with the Steve DiGregorio Young Man of the Year Award, an honor presented by the Super Football Conference in partnership with the New York Jets. This honor, unlike other athletic awards, celebrates qualities beyond the field, such as leadership, community service, and selflessness. For Libien, it’s not just about football; it’s about setting an example, inspiring his teammates, and embodying what it means to be a true role model both on and off the field.
When Libien first heard about his nomination, he said he felt “uplifted,” describing the recognition as an honor not only for his playing but for “being the person [he is] for [his] team.” His sense of gratitude runs through every part of the football program. “They see me as a leader, not just on the field, but also off it, and that’ll carry me through the rest of my life,” he said.
The way Libien embodies good leadership is found in small actions such as listening, supporting, and putting others first. “I try to put others before myself and make sure I treat others well and give them respect because I believe that if I give to others, good rewards will come back to me,” he said.
Outside of high school football, many players find that there is often something that teaches lessons that go beyond the sport itself. This mindset applies to Libien, who said that cooperation will always stick with him. He says you have to work with everybody “regardless of differences you may have, which will help you in the real world because, in jobs, you’re going to have to work with different people, some [who] you may not like, some you will like. You just have to learn how to cooperate.”
As a senior at THS, it’s important for Libien to create a positive team environment and be someone that underclassmen on the team can look up to.“You need good locker room vibes for [the team] to be successful, and [we] definitely have great locker room vibes this year,” he said. “Our chemistry is up compared to last year.” Libien also advises his fellow students that, ultimately, they should want to create great memories.
For him, inspiration and support come from his mom and dad. “My parents always just tell me to go out there and have fun and to not put a lot of pressure on myself,” he said. And, doing that, Libien says he found out how to truly have the most fun.
Nonetheless, balancing academics and sports can be a challenge for many students. To avoid that, Libien makes sure to do most of his learning in class so he has time for football after school. Additionally, he says, “You’ll ultimately get used to adjusting to both academics and athletics. It takes time, but it also helps you learn time management, which is a really important skill to have.”
As a final testament, Libien hopes to be remembered after graduating as someone who brought spirit to the team and encouraged others to succeed. He adds he wants to be “Someone who can guide the young guys, not just in football but throughout life.”
